Im worried hes lost his feelings for me and thats why he isnt replying, because no one is too busy for at least messaging the girl youre supposed to care about, once a month in the very least. Im hoping that this guy Im talking to really, really likes me, because Im 99% sure he does, but I know Ill be just fine if not. You sound like a child, whining and pouting and calling everything stupid. It was simple, direct, and I didnt mention anything about the text messages slowing down. If he was interested, he would be pursuing. Just because he doesn't respond right away doesn't mean he's lost interest. You cant control other people. So if thats happening, youre probably looking at a guy who isnt all that into you at which point I would recommend you would cut things now and meet someone new. Meanwhile, I think after only two telephone conversations it was too premature and personal. I never said any mean word to him I begged him to tell my mistake I asked to be just a friend but he just stopped replying. We were texting for awhile , then all of a sudden he just stopped talking and ignored me at work. Enjoy your life. i really like him and i feel so stupid after answering his text cuz he doesnt answer and dissapears till 5 days later and says i told you im busy but he doesnt even set a day to go out either i need your help!! OMG thank you sooo much for this article! Bad right?! After I explained why it was disrespectful not to call, he apologized for being disrespectful and when he did this, it almost seemed like it was a new concept for him. well he text me back few hours later and told me he would like to meet and he understand the way i feel. He asked if I had told anyone that we were talking. Anyways weve texted each other everyday all day. And relationships relationships are about learning to still relate to your partner from a place of love and compassion even when its not easy (especiallywhen its not easy) and that goes for your partner too! Its so easy to send a quick message. He did almost the exact same thing as your guy did. Thanks a bunch! In person he was very attentive, would put his arm around me or rest his hand on my back. He got very angry but all ok now. The worst thing is hes still on my BBM friends list, I wonder why hasnt he deleted me yet or is he waiting for me to do it? You do not want to come off as needy so just go on with life. . But he still only calls or texts to make plans with meor once in a while will text me a funny joke. I actually googled why he stupid texting because he didnt text at ask yesterday or today (w saw each other Thursday and things seemed good). It may feel like he is shutting down but he is really just figuring out his feelings. I called them out. Is guys first step always through texting? I asked for her number and she took my phone from me to type it in herself and went on to ask if I remembered her name. And it looks like the ignorant is you if you cant accept a different opinion , u expect everyone to like what u like? Be patient and stay true to yourself and youll find that one person youre meant to be with. Thats really good. I am a busy girl too but I still make time to respond to peoples messages. My husband and i see each other often we talk alot but recently he just tells me or cuts off the conversation to let me call you later, let me let you go yeah i am tired i dont know if it is because of a family memver who is very ill or maybe because he is busy or vecause he might be seeing some one else. . If hes interested, hell text back. & I still catch feelings 4 my ex bf. A woman did to me, what that guy is doing to you! Hey thanks for the advice! But then I think hes just been broken by a girl and is protecting himself and I should give him a chance? Instead of concentrating on him not texting back, think of all the little things he does for you when you are together, how he makes you laugh. or does he sometimes feel like he has to deal with you, like he has to put energy into improving your mood, reassuring you, arguing with you, etc. He tells me daily how much he likes me and enjoys being with me and cant wait to spend time with me again. He later unfriended me and I noticed this but was cool about it as we were not friends, just acquaintances. Ive read all kind of things like this is the way guys fade out their way of breaking up with you without breaking up with you. By they way I go to school with him and we have one class together. And I can see he has seen my text, but not answered it, and now I dont know if I should wait for him to come around or just assume I dont want to hang out with me any more. soooo. But if the other person might feel that they are being barraged with messages and it could be overwhelming or even annoying sometimes. He's still therebut something seems to have changed. I KNOW! On Friday, he was still sending me texts on my way to a vacation spot. And in the end only you are responsible for your emotional state. he answered me. And i know thats difficult in the beginning when you just want them around, especially for assurance that it could be going somewhere. for him. He texted me right up until I put the frosting on the cake, told me hed see me in a few and I never heard from him again until the next morning when he claimed he fell asleep on the couch after taking a shower. I refuse to sit around checking my phone constantly so I just carry on with my life as I always had (im pretty busy since I train for triathalons and I am part of a swim team). THE. So my question is, do i still have a chance? Although 5 days can feel like a long time, sometimes even 5 days can easily slip by for someone whos focused on his work routine. Then last week, i asked him to stay overnight during the week (I didnt have my children) which he did, left in the morning seemed fine and had a boys weekend, the texts were few and far between, and sending mixed messages. Ive been having a hard time with this myselfalthough my situation is a bit different. ! n you text him back saying.im fine, thank you!. n he doesnt text back..is that a bad sign or did it sound like I was being rude or that just wasnt a right way of answering???! And what Im thinking right now is move on but I think I still will reply him if he text me, because I know waiting for a reply aint feel good. Just sayin. Advice? You are amazing! The first time he found fault with me was blaming me being sarcastic when he was busy with something and couldnt really text. Reconnect with you, the silent field of consciousness behind your incessantly thinking mind. I apologize If I come off as knit picky. shall i procceed to unreactive? The date went great. He might be focused on something and have his phone off. Im talking to this guy for about 8 months now. I am desperate. we had a gathering and he initiated topics to talk to me. Youre right. So to tie this tangent up letting a guy go who is already showing signs that hes not that into you early on well, you could be saving yourself a ton of time and heartache. And for the record Im not a big caller or texter. Carry on with your life. But cant understand why he is doing like this. By pulling the plug on the negative thought loop, you wont die youll come alive. I meet a guy, we hit it off, we go out on a first date, and all contact stops! Its common sense. You owe that to yourself to be happy. . It makes me feel much better though.. I had this thought that he was cheating on me. Do you try to track him down through some other means of communication? To matter. Yep, and I agree with lipsy06. The question "Why did he ghost me?" rises in your mind. I know this entry was a while ago, but I think you handled yourself well. Once I read this I dont care about guys not texting anymore :)! Hate to be the one to burst anyones bubble, but I think the real issue here has more to do with how you feel about yourself and your life then this one guy think about it. Babye. I do have one tiny question and I hope youll answer it. Hehe, thanks so much thats so cool! Ashlyn, you are right. I saw him the next day and he swore he would make it up to me, he was so sorry and blah blah blah. Keep focusing on yourself and your health and happiness and the right guy will come along. With that said, I can be guilty of being that guy who doesnt text back. Because if we dont get closer (in this case first step is by texting), how will this relationship jump straight to going out frequently? What Im saying is that, for men in particular, theres a part of our masculine soul that hungers greatly forpockets of time where we can be left completely alone not have to deal with anything or talk to anyone. 1. Be non-reactive and stop worrying. B. i dont want to fall out with him and although i wanted him to carry on chatting to me in a cute romantic manner i would do anything right now to just here a simple hello from him to know i am in good books with him .. thanks. Talks to a mutual male friend constantly. Im expecting the texts will stop for a day or two now cause thats the way it seems to be going. The last thing people have said to me is maybe he lost his phone. I know he has returned from his trip and that he frequently checks his facebook messenger. My company Christmas party, I got a little drunk and while I did not text anything regrettable, I know I did a little TMT, to which I acknowledged my stupidity. Like many girls (im sure) i start to feel close, but when i say anything appreciative to him (sometimes i send a text the next day telling him thanks for the smiles/ laughs), I wont hear from him for a couple of weeks and with no acknowledgement when he returns. just starting ignoring me and when i commented on a photo i though was cute he ignored that aswell he is in my school and we get along great and some of the facebook messages he sent me meant quite a lot but none of us said anything meanful to put eachover off i am going with the idea he is busy and i am still trying to stop thinking it is personal. CHOOSE not to have a reaction and be cool with everything. The best way to think of text messages is this: If he tells you, specifically, hes going to text you at a specific time for a specific reason, then it makes sense to expect him to do what he told you hes going to do. So, I stopped contacting them. Okay long story somewhat short lol. It goes great! Scholar, feminine ,stunningly gorgeous, cook , clean , active..etc. Theres 7 billion people on Earth, half of them men I dont understand choosing a relationship that isnt working for you on basic levels and then whining and complaining about it when the easiest and most obvious thing to do is STOP participating in it. I agree with you 100% Too many times have I been hurt by these types of guys. Hi I told him that I would rather not hang out with him during work time but if it was possible, perhaps when he had a day off or before he reported to work. @Eric Charles: :-/ You totally drove a stake through my heart. . Nobody is forcing you. Definitely helped me put things into perspective, and feel ALOT better. I was quite sleepy then and he even joked about I should not forget to brush my teeth before going to bed. He will wonder were you are ;) Its good to put a little space in between you and him. that very well may be the reason but if a person has a gut feeling about things, that feeling is a atrong feeling that should be taken into close consideration. He also said that he doesnt want to talk to me for a while. Im gonna look at this everytime I want to text him for the 100th time. Quiz: Is He Keen Or Is He Just Messing You Around? I completly agree with the last responder to this artcile as I often worry way too much over everything as well. We had been talking on the phone and texting non stop for two weeks. After a few weeks the texting eventually stopped and i found myself texting him . It seems to apply quite well to gay men as well(Im a gay guy). I meanhe did pay but this seems strange to me. . And i was pissed. We texted and I answered his questions. You keep her jumping through #$@! I want to have a guys opinion my husband and i separated in march of last year and then we started talking again in may of that same year . That is a recipe for disaster if you do, I hope this article helped you better understand a guys texting habits. If you cant find hard evidence you have to let that go as your imagination. Ii totally understand & agree with what fannygrass is saying. good day. Cheers and have a wonderful Sunday evening. My husband just adores me; can be overwhelming at times. When I am around him, he is always texting some female and it makes me wonder why he cant do the same for me? If I didnt want a real or serious relationship then sure, maybe the emotional mind games and tag-youre-it games wouldnt bother me; but THEY DO. that night when i got home i told him to text me when he found time in his busy life, and i havent heard anything since. There used to be moments of space mixed into our days, where we would just have to wait for things. This is really great! my friend just stopped texting which is not normal. I feel like many of the men who behave this way are immature or players, and not at all ready to date like adults. And he also told that he likes be and he wanna be my life partner. You wont take it all that seriously or view it as anything important anymore. well i really appreciated this comment.iv never had a dad to put input in stop being a cow. He asked if I could keep our conversations between us and I told him that I didnt like hiding things because I had nothing to hide. No, its 50 50. nope, its usually me, but he always replies.. It was probably a mistake. so we texted for like 4 hours last week and we were flirting, and then he asked me basically why now? :-( I want it so bad so bad to mean something to him We went on a second date and had sex again but it was a bit awkward not sure why. First of all that was absolutely HIS problem. Spice it up! You are so lucky!! Throughout the two months of our getting to know each other, there was never any indication that he wasnt interested. Although, he was on my mind the whole time. So im wondering what would be going through his mind or his feelings about me and why he is ignoring me? Good news, though, is that this has been gradually happening less and less often. It will take him several hours to respond to a text which didnt use to happen, but this morning he texted me saying good morning and I responded saying the same in return but thats it. What if a guy textes you after three days with a heeeeeeeyyyyyy whats up? And if so, do yourself a favor and let him go there are plenty of signs a guy isnt into you and its a fruitless venture to think youre going to convince him he should be. I sent a text saying Good to hear from you againglad the drama is overhe replied Ty for the number. I even texted him the address in case he wanted to come on his own. Move on with your life, you sound like a confident girl who has her act together. With a near constant stream of things to react to, we have created and have been participating in a world thats become increasingly frantic and stressful. He then said that we could discuss about me visiting him at his work and I said that I had already told him I wouldnt feel comfortable. Hes said countless times he thinks Im hot/ sexy. You might find it more helpful to consider why you were teasing him. But when he hugged me I hugged him back. Thanks Eric. Why did he suddenly stop texting you? If you're using text, be honest about how you feel, or wait until you have time to face him face-to-face. but its hard to explain all that thru text bc i didnt wanna text him a whole book, i just wanted to keep it simple and straight to the point. He doesnt seem to be a big talker/texterhas even mentioned how his parents get annoyed that he doesnt get back to them right away.
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